Chrissy's Confessions

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🌑 The Realization

Today I woke up and faced a truth that’s been sitting in the shadows for a long time: I have no friends. Not because I can’t make them, not because I’m unworthy of them, but because I choose not to keep them. I don’t like hearing dumb shit. I don’t like watching people move through life with no sense, no accountability, no growth. I don’t like surrounding myself with stupidity and then pretending it doesn’t bother me.

Friendship, to me, is supposed to be sacred. It’s supposed to be built on respect, honesty, and wisdom. But too often, people confuse friendship with convenience. They want someone to listen to their nonsense, to validate their bad choices, to co-sign their foolishness. And I refuse to be that person.

🔥 The Burn

The truth is, I’d rather standalone than sit in a circle of fools. I’d rather walk my path in silence than drown in the noise of people who don’t think, don’t learn, don’t grow. People love to say, “That’s just how I am,” as if ignorance is a personality trait worth keeping. But I know better. And when you know better, you do better.

I don’t need friends who drag me down, who waste my time, who fill the air with empty words. I don’t need to babysit grown adults who refuse to evolve. I don’t need to carry the weight of other people’s stupidity just to avoid being alone.

💔 The Truth That Hurts

Yes, it hurts sometimes. It hurts to realize that solitude is the price of clarity. It hurts to see how many people are content with mediocrity, with lies, with shallow living. But it hurts worse to pretend I don’t see it. It hurts worse to sit in rooms where my spirit shrinks just to keep the peace.

So, I choose no friends. I choose peace over noise. I choose truth over comfort. I choose growth over company.

⚡ The Power

Because here’s the fire: when you know better, you do better. And when you do better, you stop tolerating bullshit. You stop letting people piss in your eyes and tell you it’s raining. You stop letting “friendship” be an excuse for disrespect.

I don’t have friends, but I have freedom. I don’t have a crowd, but I have clarity. And that’s worth more than any fake connection built on lies and stupidity.

🧠 Why People Do Dumb Things

People often act out of impulse, ignorance, or ego. They don’t stop to think about consequences, because thinking requires accountability—and accountability is uncomfortable. Dumb decisions usually come from:

  • Laziness: It’s easier to cut corners than to do things right.

  • Ego: Pride convinces people they’re smarter than they are, so they ignore advice and common sense.

  • Fear: People avoid facing truth, so they make reckless choices to escape reality.

  • Influence: Many follow crowds, trends, or toxic voices instead of their own wisdom.

  • Denial: They convince themselves their actions are harmless, even when they’re destructive.

🔥 The Fallout

The dumbest part isn’t just the act itself—it’s the expectation that you have to deal with it. People mess up, then dump the consequences on others. They:

  • Break things and expect you to fix them.

  • Lie and expect you to believe them.

  • Make reckless choices and expect you to clean up the mess.

  • Hurt others and expect forgiveness without change.

It’s like they spill gasoline everywhere, light a match, and then hand you the bucket of water—expecting you to put out their fire.

💔 The Truth That Hurts

The truth is that people do dumb things because they can. Because someone else—often someone like you—has always stepped in to deal with it. Dumb behavior survives when responsibility is outsourced. They think: “Why should I change, when someone else will handle the fallout?”

And here’s the sting: if you keep cleaning up after them, they’ll keep doing it. Dumbness thrives on enablers.

🌑 The Reality

The world is full of people who act without thinking, then expect others to carry the burden. They confuse kindness with weakness, responsibility with servitude. They believe their chaos is your obligation.

But the truth is, you don’t have to deal with it. You don’t have to carry their mess, their lies, or their reckless choices. You can call it out, set boundaries, and refuse to be the dumping ground for other people’s nonsense.

⚡ The Burn

People will always do dumb shit. That’s human nature. But the real test is whether you let their dumbness become your burden. The fire of truth is this: you don’t owe anyone your peace, your sanity, or your silence. Their mess is theirs. Your strength is yours.